After having two surgeries in 2024, my daughters thought it would be best for me to move into an assisted living community. I’d heard great things about Afton Oaks Independent & Assisted Living in Elma—especially from my sister-in-law, who had lived there before she passed—and her daughters also spoke highly of the care she received. That’s what initially brought Afton Oaks to my attention, and I’m so glad I decided to move in.

From the moment I arrived, it was a wonderful experience. The staff—Jason, Jennifer, and everyone else—were kind, helpful, and truly dedicated. I never had a single bad experience during my time there. What I looked forward to most was dining with the other residents. We became like a little family, sharing meals and conversations every day.

I would absolutely recommend Afton Oaks to anyone. It’s clean, welcoming, and filled with people who go above and beyond to make sure you’re cared for and comfortable. It’s truly a special place.

Pat W., Afton Oaks Independent & Assisted Living

I decided to move to Afton Oaks Independent & Assisted Living mainly because of safety. I’d been falling in my home, and after a short hospital stay and some therapy, it became clear that my house just wasn’t accessible enough—especially with winter coming. I use a walker now, and getting around, getting groceries, or handling little things like home repairs just wasn’t realistic anymore. It’s hard to find someone to take on small projects, and I didn’t want to keep struggling. So I chose to come here.

I’ve lived in Elma for over 50 years, and Afton Oaks allowed me to stay close to the community I love. I already knew some of the tenants, and that helped ease the transition. It’s been a new experience learning how everything works here, but the staff have all been kind, and I’ve slowly been figuring things out.

One of my favorite parts of living here is the activities. I enjoy game days—Yahtzee and bingo—and going to Colonial Manor for live music or entertainment. It’s nice to stay active and social. While I haven’t gone on outings through the facility yet, I still get out now and then with friends or my daughter.

If someone needs a little extra help or therapy support, I’d definitely recommend Afton Oaks. The staff are caring, the therapy is helpful, and it’s a good place to be—especially if staying safe and connected to your community is important to you.

Eula L - Afton Oaks (Colonial Manor of Elma)

Before moving into Afton Oaks, I had already worked at the nursing home Colonial Manor of Elma, so I knew the people and the environment well—and that made my decision to move in much easier. I’ve always loved this place, and now that I live here, I can honestly say it’s even better than I expected.

I have arthritis in my knees and neuropathy in my feet, so my balance isn’t the best. I rely on a walker to get around, and I knew I needed a place where I’d feel safe and supported. At Afton Oaks, the staff takes such good care of me. Every Thursday, they do my laundry, clean my apartment, and even remake my bed—little things that make a big difference.

The staff here are kind, helpful, and many of them I’ve known for years. They take me over to the nursing home for church and music events, always making sure I get there comfortably with a wheelchair. The meals are wonderful, and there’s always something going on—games, activities, and even special celebrations like birthdays with pizza for everyone.

One of my favorite memories was when a few of us went on a golf cart ride around town. We had a sack lunch at the park, and it was just such a thoughtful, fun outing.

If someone asked me whether they should move into Afton Oaks, I’d say, “Absolutely.” It’s not just a facility—it’s a home filled with people who truly care.

Dianne W. , Afton Oaks